Peace and Game Theory is a link which states my case - however, a three or four player model should actually get somewhere! Another link to think!
This link however argues that it is a prisoner's dillemma type two player game run repeatedly which counters my argument about negotiating under fire.
I can't find what I want! Someone somewhere that has done the game theory predicated on even three players in Israel/Palestine/Terrorists. Do I have to do the Maths myself?